This sucks. As much as I love my car, I would be pretty damn upset if my experience were yours. I would really try to get them to do a swap; my car has had ~none of your teething issues. Sure, I have the occasional software freeze or glitch, Tidal cuts out, and A/C will cut out for 5-10 seconds before turning back on (only since 1.2.10), but none of that is particularly important. The hardware has been flawless, as has the driving.
I say all of this not to say I don't believe you (I do!) but to say that I think you got some component that is a bum component. I would consider threatening lemon law and seeing if you can get them to swap instead.