Yea me too -- looking every day. I was having fun then mortality tapped me on the shoulder. I used to manage our joint finances and do our taxes. At some point, and I missed this one big time, you are in a place where you need professional help; you realize the wife can't just pick up where you left off. wow.
At the interview I learned about tax strategy. That alone is worth hiring a pro. Not only do they do my taxes now, they set up foundations where money I would have sent to the government so they can use it to investigate Hunter's dic pics, goes to fund Quaker school educations for kids who can't afford it. This is in addition to regular charitable contributions. It makes you feel heroic, and costs you nothing.
They set up a family trust, and a trust for my invalid sister to care for her the rest of her life. They have fantastic spreadsheets that show a time line of growth such that you never have to worry, with 99% certainty (your greed my vary).
Basically, we pay them to worry about our financial security.
I stopped trading and trust them completely. Looking for a new hobby. No regrets.
BUT, and does anyone else have this problem? ... when you have taken care of basic needs ... who are you?
at a party: "So what do you do?" "Ahhh ... I'm retired." (conversation dies) "Well, what did you used to do?"
"Well, I used to masturbate all day and check my portfolio." "Well, that's great. Why did you stop?" "I hired someone to check my portfolio." "So now you just masturbate all day?" "Pretty much." "So you're a wanker?" " I guess."
Capitalism defines us by the work we do. With out a job you are just another wanker. You are trivial, a drain on society.
Suddenly I find I need a philosophy. When you get to the big questions, checking your portfolio doesn't make the cut.