I guess the point being is that prior to the update, if you wanted to use your high beams, yes, you would push the stalk forward, active engagement. With high-beam assist, one should not have to push the stalk forward as they are now a passive system, a background feature if you will, and will only come on if all criteria are met via the cars logic. Having to move the stalk to engage high-beam assist each time you get into the car is not much different than pushing the stalk forward to engage the high-beams to begin with. I agree that having the ability to toggle them on/off via the stalk is important, but for me it should remember the last state the system was put in. Not a show stopper by any means, thrilled to eventually get it when I get pushed the update, but I have to believe it is on their radar for a future release.