The list of top priority features in my new BEV is the following:
1. Range. I am looking for the longest highway range possible so I can avoid public charging.
2. A tow hitch. I put one on my Mach-e for bike rack use. If I could get a hitch installed on a Air I might go that route due to the number one priority above. I don't tow things with my Mach-e but if I got a vehicle that is built to tow I would.
3. Native NACS. This is much less important than the first two, but having it is a huge deal to me.
4. The ability to haul a 4x8 sheet of drywall. Just kidding.
I am seriously considering the Rivian R1 but the OOS range test they did with the Cybertruck was hugely disappointing. The Max T went 260 miles. It was cold and they had some snow during the test, but still. That is what I can expect in the winter here. I am really, really hoping the Gravity does much better on the highway. Common sense says it will.
I like to drive over stuff but I also want it to fit into my garage. If the longest range GMs could fit in my garage, they would be on the table. Well except the Escalade. It is way too expensive for what you get. IMO.
And yes, looks are subjective. You seem to look at vehicles as more of a utility than I do. I want something that is fun and looks good. That will never be a Odyssey. Ever. Even if it can hold a full sheet of drywall.