I think like most (not all) members here, I tend to have very few problems with door handle presentation on the latest software (which my car basically came with). BUT, situations like hmp described do still happen maybe 5% of the time and all it takes is once in an inopportune or embarrassing situation to magnify the negative experience.
I believe it’s 100% avoidable by doing things like activating your app before approaching your car, making sure you don’t have the fob/key card/phone in the car while your other unlocking device is outside the car (for that matter, shouldn’t the car just automatically NOT be able to lock if the fob is left inside so you don’t accidentally lock your ‘keys’ inside the car?), checking your fob battery level, always carrying a plan B (like key card), approaching your car slowly and watching it like a hawk so you are ready to immediately initiate plan B if the handles aren’t presenting themselves etc. But of course I understand that we shouldn’t HAVE to do such things just to be comfortable that the car will open 100% of the time it’s supposed to.