I think it might be best to leave a stored car plugged in, if possible. Even when plugged in, my car will drop a percentage point or two before it recharges back up to the limit. However, the battery management system will come on periodically to keep the battery pack at optimal temperature. An unplugged car will have to draw the power to do that from the pack itself, and you would likely see much more loss over time than 1-2%. By checking every 3-4 days, you might just not have been catching the car at the point it was recharging itself from deeper charge losses caused by battery management sessions.
There really is no downside to keeping a parked EV plugged in, as all of them are programmed to charge only as needed. There can, however, be downsides to leaving the car unplugged for long periods, especially when temperatures might require a lot of battery management cycles.