I have put 10,000 miles on the iON AS SUV tires on my Mach-e. I should probably go to Tire Rack and rate them. Maybe one day...
Anyway, rain performance is not that bad. For standing water and straight-line highway use, they are good. They handle water very well. If you are driving aggressively, they are more slippery than other tires. Not dangerously so, but the tires will lose grip earlier. However, I have not done stopping distance testing, and I expect they do better with that based on the tread design.
I would definitely buy these tires again, and I am excited they are on the Gravity. Other than wet traction, they are awesome. Really. Just change them out if you are going to the track.
I would use the entire range regularly, I think. The commute to my office is 145 miles. In my Mach-e, I am forced to charge while there. There have been times when I needed to go up for the day, and of course then I needed a DCFC stop. Usually I stay overnight and can find a L2 charger that gives me enough charge to get home. I really hate all that.
I just want to drive there and drive home without needing to worry about looking for a place to charge. Because, as you said, public charging sucks. I hate it.
Round trip that is 290 miles. However, sometimes I need to take side trips around the DC area. So extra margin is good. Also, I really don't want to arrive home at 0% SOC. And there is winter, when I know I will lose another 20% of my range.
350 miles should be enough to cover extra driving, and hopefully winter range reduction. Maybe not winter range reduction, but then I only have to worry about finding a place to charge in the winter. I can accept that.