The human mind doesn't work that way as most people have no idea we have two systems of thinking where the "lazy mind" generally runs wild, where the slower, more deliberate and logical mind takes effort and is frankly, exhausting.
We're all a product of the story of our own lives, with cognitive bias, instincts, and the inherent design of how it is. Check out Daniel Kahneman's work which will illustrate this.
So expecting others to think, act, or perform our way will never happen and accepting that will get you through life without being offended and a whole lot happier.