Super frustrating. Here's my workaround.
First, as soon as the seat starts moving to her position, push any control on the driver's seat, on the left side of the chair. I usually just push the bottom position button back. That will stop it moving to her position immediately.
Once the seat stops moving, use the right cockpit to switch back to your profile. Let it load. (Takes way too long.)
Once your profile has loaded, open the driver's door and close it again. This should start the seat moving to your saved position.
Not ideal, but that's the quickest way I've found to get back to where my seat should be.