In order to stop doing so, I just disconnect my BT when I enter my home. Than the car can't be unlocked/awake, and those problems do not appear.Argh. I hate this. My car is in the garage charging. It’s closed and locked. I’m in the room above the garage, and my phone keeps connecting to CarPlay. So it’s dropping my WiFi connection entirely and trying to use my weak cell signal. This is new with 2.9 and it’s constantly happening when the car is charging.
I really love the auto-unlock feature when I approach the car, and it works 90-95% very well, that's why I can sacrifice a little bit of convenience and just turn the BT off.