I was about to make a similar comment... My suggestion would be to test drive the Gravity because in my experience it doesn't feel large when you drive it, it has a sedan kind of feeling
My experience was: bought a GGT last year, paid full MSRP for it, zero incentives, endured all the available software and hardware greatest hits, experienced the unattainable advertised EPA range and now I am left to enjoy the depreciation. My IQ level is under review...
All very good observations. Good thing you didn't get one of the early Gravitys, you'd have hated the software. We suffered it then so you can enjoy it now 🙂